The Imperative of Building Your Future Before Marriage.

By Ahmed Hauwa Kuta, 



In today’s Nigeria, the rush to secure a place in the arms of a well-to-do spouse often overshadows the importance of building one’s own future. Nigerian women, in particular, find themselves at a crossroads, torn between societal expectations and personal aspirations. The stark reality is that many are opting for the allure of marriage to wealthy men instead of charting a course to establish their careers and secure their own futures.

Breaking away from tradition is never easy, especially when it concerns something as deeply ingrained as the ideal of marriage. Nigerian women, like women worldwide, have been conditioned to believe that their ultimate goal should be marriage. However, it’s crucial to recognize that a woman’s worth extends far beyond her marital status.

The modern Nigerian woman faces an alluring but precarious path. A growing trend sees young women prioritizing marrying into wealth over investing in themselves. While financial security is essential, it shouldn’t come at the cost of personal and professional development.

The consequences of this trend are profound and far-reaching. Rushing into marriage without first building a stable foundation can lead to dependence, disempowerment, and stifled personal growth. It is vital to acknowledge that marrying into wealth does not guarantee happiness or security.

Empowerment lies in a woman’s ability to shape her destiny. Pursuing education, a career, and personal growth before marriage allows for greater self-sufficiency, confidence, and a broader range of life choices. It enables women to bring more to the table in their relationships and fosters a sense of fulfillment.

In a society that often equates success with marital status, it’s time for Nigerian women to reclaim their agency and prioritize building their futures before marriage. Remember, a fulfilling life isn’t merely about who you marry but also about the journey of self-discovery, achievement, and independence. By choosing to invest in themselves, Nigerian women can create a brighter, more empowered future.

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